The Jim Fortin Podcast

EPISODE 111: “Your Life Is Your Life Because Of You”

May 6, 2020

I KNOW you’ve heard it a bazillion times, you know, something along the lines of “You are the creator of your life,” etc…etc, blah, blah.

Well, it’s true and the $64,000 question you should be asking yourself is this: “If it’s true then how come I don’t have everything I want in life?”

The reason you don’t have all that you want is because, the conundrum, you are the creator of your life. Better said, you’re full of self-deception, self-illusion and full of mental toxicity…even if you don’t yet recognize it.

Being a BEing of consciousness and energy you go through your days absorbing everything you see, hear and experience. And, because you do this, you absorb toxicity and don’t know it.

The unfortunate thing is that this toxicity is actually what keeps you from what you want in life.

I have to admit, what I’m going to suggest in this episode can be a lifetime growth process for most of us, however, it’s a higher stage of evolution for all of us and it helps you create the life experience you want in this lifetime.

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Your life is your life because of you

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Full Episode Transcript


You're listening to episode number 111 of the Transform Your Life from the inside out podcast. In this episode, The title is this your life is your life because of you. Now and this episode, I know that many of you that just listened to the title are thinking, Well, duh, yeah, Jim, I get it. But you know what? If you really, really got it at a deep level, you would pretty much be creating everything that you want in life. Stay tuned.

Hi, I'm Jim Fortin, and you're about to start Transforming Your Life from the inside out with this podcast. I'm widely considered the leader in subconscious transformation. And I've coached super achievers all around the world for over 25 years. Here, you're going to find no rah rah motivation and no hype. Because this podcast is a combination of brain science, transformational psychology, and ancient wisdom all rolled into one to take your life to levels you've never thought before. If you're wanting a lot more in life, to feel better, to heal, to have peace of mind, to feel powerful and alive, and to bring more abundance and prosperity into your life, then this podcast is for you. Because you're going to start learning how to master your mind and evolve your consciousness. And when you do that, anything you want then becomes possible for you. I'm glad you're here.

How to Distinguish the Real “You”

Thinking back. This was probably about five years ago. I woke up one morning and when I wake up in the morning, I recapitulate my dreams. Most times, I will mentally catalogue my dreams and working with a Shaman I become very adept because I think it's one of my natural abilities is to air quote to dream I am a dreamer. And I recapitulate my dreams in the morning, and I just basically lie in bed and they just go through Okay, that's a dream Now, what's the context? What's the content? What's my takeaway? What's my lesson?

And I remember a dream that I had many years ago. And in this dream was very simple dream. I was looking at a computer screen and I was I was surfing the internet. And behind me was my brother in law, the Shaman Don Javier. And he put his hand on my shoulder and he said to me, he said, everything that you see online, you absorb through your eyes, and it becomes part of your consciousness, it becomes part of your experience. And that morning when I which I'm going to say woke up, Eric, woke up because, you know, what I tell people is when are you most alive in dream time when you think you're asleep? For example, right now, you think you're awake, but really when are you more alive when you're sleeping in pure unfettered consciousness, or now when the majority of your consciousness and your ability to actually experience the world is impeded by your five physical senses, but anyway, When I woke up that morning, I was I was recapitulating my dreams. And I've always remembered that dream. And I took it to hard Because for me, as I mentioned before, there's an episode here on dreaming. It's one of the earlier episodes. When I need something from my brother in law, when I need an answer, I need some guidance or whatever, actually, what I'll do, and I may have shared this with you guys on the podcast, but I will do ,what I'll do is I'll text him and I'll say, hey, Don, I need an answer on XYZ. Can you help me with this? And I will generally say, can you satellite me the answer.

And basically, that's code for what I mean is, can you show me in dream time? what the answer is that I need? What is my highest guidance? What should I be looking at? But that particular dream? I started thinking about it. I'm like, What things do I absorb from the world around me? Where do I place my attention? And where do I have my attention when I'm online? Where do I keep my attention online? And I want to actually weave that into our time together because obviously, the title of this episode is your life is your life because of you. But what I want to talk about in this episode is how much of you is you that you've absorbed, you know, from the outside world, and then how much of that you is you that you've absorbed from the outside world that is toxic, that you don't even think about it because you're completely blind. It's a blind side, that you're absorbing this toxicity from the world, but you don't even know that you're doing it. And you know, when I think about that metaphor for the dream that I absorb things, anything online that I see, the bigger metaphors that I absorb life around me, and that's a matter of, you know, where I place myself, where am I who do I communicate with what am I looking at online? What am I watching when I bingeing on Netflix or whatever, which I just mentioned earlier, I don't binge a lot. But there's one shot that's got me pretty wrapped up this week. It's been on Netflix for like three years, and I started bingeing.

I'm like, dang, I missed this three years ago. What a great show. But the interesting thing about the world that we live in, even on this planet, is that we live on a planet of 100%, pure possibility and potential. Now, I know you've heard that before is that, let me back up even further here. So let me say this. I know you've heard that, but I get a kick. And that's okay. Because I understand that because I've been the same way working with a shaman for a lot of years, is I know that what a lot of you do is you listen to the episodes. And you listen and you think, Oh, I got it. And you might have it to some degree, left brain analytically. But you really, really don't have it, even though that you think that you have it.

And I'll tell you a story a little bit later in this episode about that because I deftly Get it. But what I want you to look at it, what I want you to start thinking about in this episode is you've listened to as many episodes as you have. And I don't know how many that is. I mean, some people have listened to all the episodes and all the episodes multiple times. But have you really just sat and ask yourself, okay, I have consumed a lot of and from what I hear, I mean, the feedback that I get about the podcasts a lot of transformational content. But let me ask you, have you transformed your life and the way that you want just from the content?

Now, I want to ensure that all so because what a lot of people do is they go on to my transformational programs which are exponential. Unfortunately, the podcast is not exponential. But I want to share here about that is that there's so much content here and so much and I mean, this humble so much good content, that you overlook a lot of it because a lot of it's very simple stuff. And that's what we do as human beings Many times we're like, you know what, let me make things as hard as I possibly can. And I need four steps. And if I don't have four steps, then guess what? It just can't be as simple as one step. Well, it is. But the reason I got off on this little tangent is I want you to look at life.

For real seriously, for real,the world that you live in, right this second, this world is 100% pure possibility, and pure potential. But the question I wanted to ask you is, how can we you're not capitalizing on that possibility and pure potential, when pretty much not 100% but I'd say 97,98,99% you can have anything you want. Now, when I said, you know, for example, 100% for example, if you're in a car accident and you lose your legs, you're probably not going to win the Boston Marathon. That's what I mean by you know, you might not have 100% but guess what, you can compete in the marathon you can wheelchair in the marathon, you can, you know, if you have legs, you can use crutches. So I just want to I just want to, you know, add that little caveat. But generally speaking, the world that we live in is pure possibility. And yet most of you are saying, oh, yep, yep. Jim, I get it. But you're not actually capitalizing on the possibility. And then I look at the world around us, look at your world, look at the world around you. You know, in this lifetime, when you're born into this lifetime, you have this John Locke, British philosopher called us. He said that we were born basically tabula rasa, which is basically a blank slate, and you're born into this world of pure potentiality, a blank slate, and you can create anything. And then I look at lifetimes and I look at mine as well. And I'm very fortunate. I'm very, very fortunate for the opportunities I've had in my life. And the things that have come into my life and the prosperity and the abundance and the friends and the family. I mean, seriously. I am I'm so blessed that my life has been what I call very, very easy. But I look around and I look at myself my earlier life, and I look at myself now. And I'm like, I'm the same guy. I mean, I had the same heart and everything else. Why was it not creating abundance in my wealth and wealth in my life 25 years ago, and why now? And I look at the world around me. And I see some people that create wealth. Some people create extreme wealth. Some people do it. Honestly, some people do it through service. Some people do it through dishonesty. Some people create no wealth. Some people live literally paycheck to paycheck or less or entire lifetime. Some people create wonderful relationships. Some people struggle their entire lifetime. Some people are married 5,6,7,8 times in their lifetime. Some people live a lifetime of health. Some people live a lifetime of ill health and what I want to share with you all so you may not agree you may want to push back and that's fine with me. But just because you have genetics that might predispose you to something doesn't mean that you have to air quote, have that something and want to make that very clear to you. But a lot of people, they don't think that way. A lot of people will say things well, you know, because my father had my grandfather had and my great grandfather had diabetes, well, I'm probably going to get diabetes also.

Now, that's incorrect. You might have a genetic predisposition, but it doesn't mean that you're going to have it. So here's where I'm going to go here. And I know you've heard this before, but please listen, please listen with different ears. Listen, in a different way is that you're the sole creator of your life. You are the sole creator of your life. Because you're a born creator. You're literally born onto this planet to create seriously and you look at your own life. Look at where you are right now.

And I don't know your your your financial station. In life, but let's use that, for example, do you have a college degree? The answer is obviously Well, yes or no or I'm working towards it. But if you have a degree, who earned that degree for you? Did somebody go to school for you every day and take all of your tests for you and, and earned that diploma? Or did you know what did you do it yourself? Did you stay up the nights like, you know, studying and researching and writing your papers and everything else? If you're waiting tables, that somebody forced you to wait tables, where you're waiting tables, if you're waiting tables, and you're being very prosperous, who's doing that for you, as somebody showing up and waiting your tables for you and giving you the money. You look at your job, look at where you work. Look at that for a moment, look at where you work and look at the income or the wealth that it brings you or doesn't bring you. YOU get that YOU are the one who created that. And here again, I'm gonna segue for a second. I know that pretty much everyone that listens listens to this podcast goes, yes, Jim, I get it. I get it, I get it.

Yeah, you get it, but you don't get it. Because if you really got it and you just sat with that, you just sat with that, you know what, your life would be a lot different. You know, just being transparent here and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out. I have an entire team of people. And they do all of my posting for me on Instagram. And I even actually one of the person who does is she posted a while back on Instagram, and she posted you're the creator of your life. own that. Just bought my mic there. apologize for that. But you are the creator of your life. own that. The reason that I shared that with you because guess what, that is my screensaver on my own phone. Because I remind myself I look at my own life. I am the sole creator of my own life. Anything that I have or I don't have is because of what I've created. Now I want to go somewhere else with that. But before I do I have something here I want to ask you, or something that I want you to do is I want you to notice, I want you to notice how much information that you see online on a daily basis. And then I want you to notice how it makes you feel.

Now, you might not be online a lot. But I want you to notice how much information you absorb on a daily basis from the world around you. And then I want you to notice how it makes you feel. Again, the operative word is feeling. So if you're not online a lot, and there are some people that are not online a lot and that's great. I think they're not on social media. But let's say you're driving through your town and you see a billboard and you know what you don't agree with a billboard. What does that create inside of you? What is something outside of you create inside of you? What if it's a political ad? You don't agree with? What does that create on the inside of you? What if somebody is reckless driving? What does that create in you? So what I want I want you to notice here is that many of us, we create our worlds based upon how we're being based meaning being in terms of our emotions, based upon the external world around us. So now here's where I want to go next, is what I want to share with you is that many people will say, Well, why is this happening to me? I don't get it. Why can't I get a break? You know what happened here? It's not as hard for other people what other people have it easier than I do? Well, what I want to share with you, and this is so simple, so simple, that most of you have missed that throughout the podcast, every thing that is happening to you, and your life is happening because of you.

Now, let me Say it again. Everything. Everything that is happening to you in your life is happening because of you. If you've got a great job that's happening because of you, if you've got trouble at work, and you hate your job that's happening because of you.

And you could say, well, let's not happen because of me. I've got a crappy boss. I got a mean boss, I've got a boss that's sadistic or whatever. Well, you are the one who chose to accept that job and go to work there. So guess what you might say you got trouble at work, but it happens because of you because you're choosing to work there. All right. Now, again, I don't know your your socio economics, your demographics, your finances and everything. But let's look at money for a second just very, very briefly, is whatever you have in your life with your money and I talked about this in Episode Number nine Whatever you have is because of you. And I would love just to have like a long pause. And for you finally somewhere to go, oh my gosh, I finally get it. It is because of me.

And then I'd love if you take this and you absorb it and you just sit down, and you own that it's because of you. And then you dig even deeper into yourself, like pulling the corn house back on an era corn. And you dig deeper and deeper and deeper and look into yourself to see what it is in you. That's creating the habits and the thought patterns and the feelings and the emotions, all these things that attract to you, the you meaning they attract to you meaning they attract a life to you that you do not desire. I find it so interesting when I when I watch people and I've been there before. I find it so interesting that people complain about their lives. And the irony is they're the one creating the life. I mean, they're the ones literally without even consciously realizing it. They're creating Or life, and then they're complaining about the life they've created as if somebody else created it for them.

You, you. Now there's something I just popped in my mind here and I want to share it before you know, because it'll pop right back out of my mind. But there's a phrase that I learned long ago. And the phrase is this, your habits are your magnets. And it might not be 100% applicable to this episode, but it just popped in my mind and I wanted to share it is that your habits are your magnets. And you You are a magnet because see that little three pounds that sits between your two ears is is a magnet. It's like a receiver for consciousness and it's a magnet. And that's actually the reason that I'd mentioned that in this episode. It's a magnet.

And you know, I know people, some some of my friends listen to the podcast, and some of them are extremely, extremely wealthy. And some have amazing relationships and some don't have amazing relationships and some Don't have two times to run to rub together. And I don't say things to people because I just observe unless people ask me my thoughts on things. And even for people that I know, obviously, personally, and I know that there are people right now going, yep, I got tons of money in the bank, my mag, they works for me, ha, I'm a magnet, my magnet attracts money. But they're not even seeing the flip side of the coin, where they're going through relationship after relationship after the after relationship.

And then they're complaining about the relationship that they're in because oh, what doesn't work for me because of this, that or the other not even recognizing it doesn't work because they're the ones showing up with their old self of their old crap in the relationship. So here's the thing I want to share with you is your entire life. Your entire life is about your own self. And I don't mean to be selfish. That's not where I was going with that, or perhaps that's the way that it came out. It doesn't mean to be mee mee mee mee mee mee mee I guess better said. That your entire life is created by your own self.

And any example any example you want to give me I could refute because I've seen it. You could say, well, I'm in a wheelchair, so I can't do XYZ. I know if a guy that's a paraplegic and is created a multimillion dollar business, you could say, well, my parents used to beat me every day. Well, you know what, I know people whose parents beat them every day. And they're very, very, very like the opposite. I mean, they're like the most light hearted, kindest people in the world. There's a guy that I interviewed several years ago, his name is Clayton, and Clayton would have extensively in the world we live in have every reason to be a better person.

He was meaning just in the way that the world operates and the way people generally generally absorb the world around them. He was on The Oprah show many years ago, and Oprah said, it's the worst case of child abuse she's ever seen in her life. I mean, this guy was abused, like you can't even fathom And he was like the kindest, sweetest, most loving, happy go lucky guy. So he could say, well, I, I'm, I'm a jerk, and I'm angry at the world. And I'm all these kind of things because of the way that I was raised. And I would all even Oprah said it was the worst case of child abuse she's ever seen. So that's why I'm the way that I am, which is what a lot of people say, I'm the way that I am because of XYZ. No, you are the way that you are because of you. Hopefully, that's starting to resonate, you are the way that you are because of you, and no one else and nothing else in your life.

You know, many of you ask yourself, Well, why am I here, which I alluded to earlier, why am I in this place? I don't want to be in this place. How come other people are not in this place? And you could plug in any life value that you want. And then what many of you do is you blame it on externals the economy or it could be Coronavirus You know, I'm not going to go into it in this episode, but I'm watching the amount of people that are in business. And they're literally sitting and maybe aren't even entrepreneurs. And they're sitting on the railroad tracks waiting for the train to head not even recognizing they're sitting on the railroad tracks waiting for the train to head because you're saying, well, it's not my fault that I'm here. It's because of Coronavirus. No, it's not because of Coronavirus. I had another friend he posted something and I tend not to engage too much on social media because people will people love to argue from their very, very limited perspective of life.

And he said if your business is hurting and this is going to maybe pick some of you guys off but that's okay. He said if your business is hurting because of Coronavirus. It's not because of Coronavirus. It's because you're a bad planner. You didn't plan your business better over the years or whatever it was, for the most part to be in a safe place in case we ever had an economic slump like this. And you can sit there and you can want to throw Rotten Tomatoes at me and everything else but when you think about it. And you get honest with yourself. That is the truth. But not only is it the truth, it applies to everything in your life, because you are where you are because of you.

Now to recapitulate a little bit, there are some people listening right now and I know right now at this time of this episode, and they're like, Jim, I get it. Why? Come on, Jim, I've listened to all your episodes, I've listened to half. I already get this, I'm going to check out I'm going to go do something else. I'm not going to listen to this. And guess what, if you're saying that you're probably the very person who needs to get at a deeper level, but you're not getting it at a deeper level, because I just said earlier that if you don't have and you're not creating the things that you want, it's not because of anything and your external life. That's why I've mentioned the metaphor about the corn husk and shucking an ear of corn, we must shuck deeper. And that being said before I go, there I want you to observe even if you think you don't have it, I want you to observe the toxicity and your thinking. And I also know what a lot of you are a lot of you are doing, you're single, I'm not toxic. I'm like the most positive guy in the world.

Well, if you're the most positive guy in the world or girl, and that worked for your man or woman, then again, for most of you, how can you not creating what you want in life? we as human beings, you've heard me say it before we get into self deception. been there done that myself for many years. And full transparency, I still do it at the levels that I'm working out with a shaman. There are still things that I'm not seeing that you know what I need to be seeing. Oh, by the way, just off topic, by the way, a question that I teach people a lot of times, is a question that I asked myself and I asked my subconscious mind quite often is, what is it that I need to be seeing about XYZ that I'm not seeing and you may want to write that down because everyone has blind spots. But you know what, you don't even know you have blind spots in certain areas because are blind spots. So you might want to ask yourself that question. Anytime you find yourself air quotes stuck. And I've also said before you're never stuck is simply your thinking that is stuck because you're never stuck in life as a being. It's your thinking that stuck. But the question back to that question again, and then I'll keep on going. That question is, what is it that I'm not seeing that I need to be seeing to blank meaning to move ahead to make money to get the deal signed, to heal myself or whatever it might be for you. Okay, back to toxicity.

Now, what I was saying is a lot of you were saying, Jim, how dare you there's no toxicity in me. I'm sweet. I'm loving. I'm kind. Well, you know what, look at how much you absorb throughout your day. And it creates toxicity in your thinking even momentarily and you don't even know that it's doing it. So what kind of toxicity Do you live on a daily basis? So let me give you some questions here and things to think about. All right. So let's keep it really simple. What do you think of others? Now let's go deeper. What do you think about the person you dislike most? What do you think about the person who just trashed you on Facebook? What do you think about the person who just cut you off in traffic? What do you think about your mother trying to control and dominate you earlier? What do you think about the IRS? What do you think about what you read in the news today?

All that I want you to do is notice how much those things that I asked you most likely if you're like, most people brought you out of balance, and they brought you out of peace and harmony and love. And by the way, I'm no expert at this I'm learning I'm learning as well as you guys it's just I happen to be with a shaman for enough years that at least I know I need to be learning it. But if you think I'm some Swami here with a with a turban on sitting here going peace and love and flowers every day, I am not. I I have my lessons to learn as well, but I can share these lessons with you guys. So, how about this? How much toxicity is there? When you get up in the morning and you're looking in the mirror? What's the first thing you said to yourself in the mirror? Like, Oh, God, I look like hell today. Or what happened to me? I used to be so young and fit and pretty unattractive. Or Oh my god, you look bad today. You know, it's interesting I mentioned before is when we get up in the morning, the first thing that we start doing most of us is we start judging. We look in the mirror and then what we start doing is we start judging how about this, what fears have you gotten into in the last 24 hours? And then I want to ask you what toxicity meaning just negative and low negative and low vibration is tied to that fear?

You know, fear is the greatest illusion and I tell you, this is something that I have been very rough. How do I say this? I have been very fortunate to be able to shuck away a lot, if not almost most of the fears that most people go through on a daily basis by virtue. You're working with a shaman for so many years. But I definitely get what it's like to spend your entire day in fear me many years ago, how am I going to pay my bills? What are people going to think about me? What are people? What do people judge me? But take your takeaway here? Is this. People judging me people saying things about me. What I want you to look at is how much toxicity does that create in your life on a daily basis? And then I want you to look at how much anger Have you gotten into today?

Consider that how much anger Have you gotten into today? And then also consider how much resentment and jealousy and vindication being vindictive Have you gotten into today? Now, these are all things that I share with you that I want you really to be honest with yourself and look in the mirror and say, Wow, you know what, I never I never looked at it that way. I never realized that when I was angry. I was getting into toxicity when I was jealous. I was getting into toxicity. When I was fearful all day long. I was getting into toxicity Now, let's go back, you're the one creating the toxicity. Right? You're the one creating it. It's not somebody standing over your shoulder saying let me put toxicity in your brain. It's no one else but you. Now here's the kicker. Here's what happens next is you are a radiating bundle of energy, your electrons, neutrons and protons, you are consciousness. The universe does not say to you, you know what, the universe does not say I'm going to separate your work toxicity from your personal home life personality. So at work, you can be angry at your boss and you can cuss at your boss and you can or your entrepreneur you can yell at your customers or this or that, but you know what, being the universe that I am what I'm going to do, so I'm going to cut that in half. So when you walk it, you know, you walk into your front door, at night at home. Guess what? It's a completely different energy.

No, the universe does not separate your energy out hour by hour. or job by job, or whether you're at one store or a different store or talking to one person or another person, or driving a one road or another road, the universe, simply just read your frequency and vibration and your frequency and vibration come from your feelings and your feelings come from your thought. So that's why I asked you earlier, what do you think on a daily basis, and then all these things that you think create toxicity in you? And then here's the kicker and kind of my my build up to the podcast, is you're wondering why you're not getting what you want in life. You're not getting what you want, because you're sitting here for like three minutes saying, you know, okay, law of attraction. Here's what I want to create. I want the beach house with the oceanfront property, and I want the car and I want the job and I want this and I want that.

Okay, universe, that's what I want. Now, I just did that for three minutes. But let me go back into another 23 hours and 57 minutes of toxicity, which is the anger the hate the grief The judgment, the judgment of others judgment of yourself the fears, the resentment, whatever it might be. So literally, the universe reads the dominant frequencies. So you have these thoughts which create these feelings, which creates your vibration, which creates your frequency. By the way, go back to episode number nine and listen to it again and again and again. Which I explained this even farther for you or further for you. So then you're wondering, well, how come I am not getting what I want in my life? Well, guess what? You are the one creating it or not creating or miscreating based upon where you hold your attention, which you've heard me say a lot of times in this podcast.

So your takeaway here, which I've still have some more to go here, okay, guys, there's some things I want to say. But the universe is not responding. The part of you that part of you that says, hey, universe, I want a better life. I want the home in the car, the job. The universe is responding to all of you that literally three minutes when you say that and then the other again, 23 hours and 57 minutes when you're and all these other emotions that you're in the toxicity that people have created, you know, around you in the world. Now I know there's some people because I every so often the team will send me emails from you guys. And there's some people that are going to say, you know what, Jim, that's not me. I am. This is what people do, by the way for all of you. I know because I've done it. And I've it's been shown to me that I've done this is we all say no, no, no, not me. I smell like roses, I'm sweet as anything. Yet, that very same person might have a toxicity of the anger or the resentment towards their mother or something they're carrying, not even realizing that they're even carrying that toxicity in themselves. And then they wonder why they're not getting what they want in life. Why? Because they're also taught tossing that toxicity out to the universe.

Now, where we ideally want to be, and I say ideally, because this is our work here on this planet, is what if you. We're your true self. What if you were and you showed up in terms of thoughts in terms of feelings, which would then affect your frequency and vibration or your vibration and frequency? What if you, you came from your higher self, your divine cosmic self? What if you came from pure love, and I mean, literally real, unconditional love. And again, disclaimer, if I if I had to like a medical thing, if I had to put a disclaimer on this, it'd be at the bottom in big bold letters, like you see it in the commercials sometimes. But my disclaimer is I'm not there. But something else meaning the pure, unconditional love all day long in the world that I'm in. But here's the thing. I know that wherever I hold my attention, and I could, which I don't do, I could watch CNN or Fox or Reuters and I scan stuff every so often just to kind of see what's going on in the world and generally, it never changes anyway.

But you know what I can let all these things in the world affect me meaning the external effect, the internal and then I have to look at what kind of toxicity toxicity am I bringing into my life. So where I'm working from right now it's something that's in front of me last year my year was about letting people not have my internal peace. And this year it's about being at a complete state of peace with unconditional love. Now mind you, I am working on this but at least I know that I'm supposed to be working on this. So my question for you today is what would that look like for you? If you were literally working from that place of just divined peaceful love from inside you? And then I look at to the point of this entire episode is about you know, you creating the world you creating your world because the episode is your life is your life because of you. But what if you were you from a different place as opposed to the place you've been being you from? What have you were you from a place of unconditional love, then what would your life be? Because see, when you're in that place, when you're in that place, that's where we create from is what I call a place of well being.

This is what I tell people is that the most powerful place that you can create from the most powerful place that you can air quote, be, is in a state of well being. So hopefully, you've taken from this podcast in this episode is that many of you that think you are and by the way, it just is what it is. Because like I said, I've tossed myself under the bus also. I mean, there are many times, you know, well, let me let me go here first with my brother in law. One time this was many years ago, we were on a family trip. And he explained something to me just like I'm explaining things to you. And I'm like, hey, Don, you know,Don Javier here I get it. And he's like, No, No, you don't. And I'm like, No, I do. I do get it. And he's like, No, you don't. And I'm like, No, Don. Seriously, I get it. And he's like, that's okay. And Then like four years later, I'm like, Oh, he's so right. I didn't get it.

So hopefully in this episode, one of the main things that I want you to get here first and foremost is what I want you to get is that your life is your life, whatever it is, because of you Next, your life is what it is because of you. But it's because of the ways that you have been BEing and the next we go into what ways have you been BEing that's filtered up into the external world? And then that goes back to the toxicity that you might not even recognize that you have and the judgment and the fear and the anger and the jealousy and all these kind of human emotions that people get into that for you literally are toxicity and then guess what? The universe reads these electromagnetic frequencies and it creates your world around you, which goes back to the title of this episode, which is your life is your life because of you, and your transformationational take away this week. Your life is your life because of you. Okay, I'll catch you over on the next episode. Thanks for listening and do what you can to make it a great week this week. Bye bye.


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